I am me. This is me. not just another person, but me.Tumblr (3.0; @tolitzzz)http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu1646bM6b1qbpwzeo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/12362773338http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/12362773338Sat, 05 Nov 2011 04:52:49 -0400http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/12362708366http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/12362708366Sat, 05 Nov 2011 04:47:52 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqch6g5zhy1qbn69no1_250.gif"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9332356490http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9332356490Wed, 24 Aug 2011 08:56:39 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq1fm7VZci1r1rlsbo1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9047420969http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9047420969Wed, 17 Aug 2011 15:39:47 -0400http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9003942931http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/9003942931Tue, 16 Aug 2011 14:31:44 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lptiv1XN541qajjdco1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8999411296http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8999411296Tue, 16 Aug 2011 12:19:06 -0400love<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpv1me24iv1qahj27o1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955986621http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955986621Mon, 15 Aug 2011 12:54:56 -0400graphicswordartstypographiesdammit im madmaddamnspelling<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpegcvf8DR1qgujfno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955856263http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955856263Mon, 15 Aug 2011 12:51:09 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_loj6nr2vnH1qkm1bjo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955796440http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8955796440Mon, 15 Aug 2011 12:49:24 -0400hurtheartbreakgrief<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_loq49hdWNx1qi3d83o1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://trungphan.tumblr.com/post/7960523914/arguing-in-a-relationship-embrace-conflict-there">trungphan</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p><strong>Arguing In A relationship</strong></p> <ul><li><strong>Embrace conflict</strong>. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Go after the issue, not each other</strong>. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Listen respectfully</strong>. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Talk softly</strong>. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Get curious, not defensive</strong>. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Find points of agreement</strong>. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Look for options</strong>. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Make concessions</strong>. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you.</li> </ul><ul><li><strong>Make peace</strong>.  Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means  staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.</li> </ul></blockquote> </blockquote>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8088692536http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/8088692536Tue, 26 Jul 2011 12:10:00 -0400<img src="http://assets.tumblr.com/images/content_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887758438http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887758438Thu, 21 Jul 2011 12:03:59 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_loauayck0I1qbpwzeo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887729986http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887729986Thu, 21 Jul 2011 12:03:03 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lo7x7wiUsK1qck6lso1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://youlllessthanthreeme.tumblr.com/post/7613869584">youlllessthanthreeme</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>People always judge other because of its physical appearance. but actually most of the time they are the ones who really have a good heart. :)</p> </blockquote>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887649307http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887649307Thu, 21 Jul 2011 12:00:17 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_logqieSuNo1qe0y5zo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887153766http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7887153766Thu, 21 Jul 2011 11:42:51 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ln3r0b8yGd1qhowv5o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764490935http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764490935Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:29:48 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lofxcfBpib1qajjdco1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764349974http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764349974Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:25:23 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_loh1ghwonz1qivxzdo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><blockquote> </blockquote></p>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764322502http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764322502Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:24:32 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_leudv5rdUJ1qbdzeqo1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764319610http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764319610Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:24:27 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lodqnlR2o31qgujfno1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><em><strong>angas! i want one!!!</strong></em></p>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764245605http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7764245605Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:22:07 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnx44bNG5c1qaboh9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>He’s my favorite character!!! ang cute nya!!! hahaha</p>http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7491365531http://tolitzzz.tumblr.com/post/7491365531Mon, 11 Jul 2011 08:56:27 -0400